Thursday, September 21, 2006

I caught images on CTV Toronto earlier this morning,
of Internet posted videos of "The Morningville School Fight Club".
I didn't Google it, I had seen enough.
Teenage boys brutally beating on each other, in planned fights,
while crowds of both sexed teenagers circled, watched and cheered,
time after time after time.
all the while, being video taped, for posting, on the World Wide Web.
On so many levels, this is horrid. Vile. Sad. Devastating. Sickening. Unconscionable.
And real.
It is time to reclaim our children.
Whether your own, or of this planet.
But let us start close to home.
So many people think that as children get older, they need less supervision.
It is simply not true.
Many parents bow out at this age, thinking it is inevitable that peers will/should have more influence than parents
Think of yourselves at that age, in today's environment and with today's technology.
With no active supervision.
I rest my case.
Be it violence , drugs , criminal misconduct or immature sex,
we are losing our kids ,folks.
main stream kids from mainstream families are conducting themselves like this.
And worse. Mortally worse.

I have a great book in my "favorites" bookcase,
a practical, important read

"Hold on to your kids...
Why Parents need to matter more than peers."
Neufeld and Mate'

We must hold our children far closer than we have,
and not only in a physical sense.
We must be involved and available, and not willing to take a backseat to peers and other influences.
It's time to take back control.
To parent, or mentor.
To be involved in our youth.
I won't accept that our children have strayed so far.

9 comments:

Heather Plett said...

Hear, hear!

I had heard of that book, but never checked it out - I may need to look for a copy.

Tracy said...

Nodding my head in agreement. You are so very right!

Anonymous said...

Interesting you bring this up. A few years ago I was talking w/ my supervisor in my Army Guard unit about going to a leadership class that would take me away from my family for a couple weeks. I told her I didn't like leaving my (then 3 year-old) boy for so long a stretch. She told me that in a way, leaving kids when they are 3 is easier than leaving kids when they are teenagers. She said her teenaged kids seemed to need her more in the teenage years than ever before.

At the time I thought she was nuts--but w/ all the crazy stuff in this world--now I think she's probably right.

Silver Creek Mom said...

RIGHT ON HOPE.

I'm here when my teenage daughter needs to talk.

I can't believe this is done every day. make me sick.

VERY SICK. And then people wonder why the stuff like what Happened at Dawson Happens.

misty harley said...

Sadly, this isn't a new thing.

Dr. Deb said...

Fight CLubs are a very strange thing indeed.

Gina said...

There are so many parents that are afraid to discipline their children. Either that, or they think they should be their "friend" and not their parent.

A disservice either way.

jumpinginpuddles said...

nods head in a animated agreeance

Hope said...

So, after talking to my daughter about this, she shakes her head and said.... didn't you hear about the movie... the movie??? so this is not a new thing. I live in a small western rural community. This happened in the east part of Canada.
I was shocked.... I am more shocked this is not new.
Oh my god.
What the hell are we gonna do about this?
we are leaving a rotting, decaying planet to a bunch of thugs.
And it's our doing.