Just as I am considering hopping in the shower, to start my day,
and the much welcomed call, meeting cancelled.
Most of my meetings are with bureaucrats, thus the cancellations.
(the private sector does not call near as many as these meetings,
or apparently doesn't have as many reasons to cancel,)
but regardless....
I'm putting off deciding what to do with the day,
that could easily be filled with a number of things.
I have lots on my mind.
My daughter has put her relationship on pause.
And attempted to rewind it.
He hit the stop button, she countered with eject.
And it's weighing heavy on my heart.
My daughter is very sad, not about the decision, but about the disappointment, and his absence. She is such a logical woman, her head leads her heart, and her head tells her that the majority of relationships fail. And she doesn't feel it's worth the risk. Unless she as certain as she can be.Not that she's against marriage, she's against making commitments she can't follow through on. She will not risk her heart. So I challenge her with her decision to become a single parent to the Cree Princess, wasn't that a major heart risk, I ask. No she says, that was destiny. She goes on to say she believes she will know when it's time to give her heart to someone for a lifetime.
I hope she's right.
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Oh dear. I hope she finds what she's looking for, but from my experience, few people have that kind of assurance. Mostly, I think, it's a matter of deciding "can I live better with him than without him?" and "can I live with his flaws for the rest of my life?"
I think you are right Heather. There ain't no such thing as the perfect partner.
I am going to pose those questions to her....
Things spun out really quickly and he turned around the next day and bought another house without her input. That made quite a statement.
Yes that does seem sudden, since you just wrote about how she was going to rent out her house and buy one together with him.
I'm still not over my own daughter's break up and they were only together 14 months. It's like the whole family broke up with him.
Relationships can be so hard that it is a wonder that anybody has any at all! I hope she is right, too.
I am in no position to offer anyone advice on this, Ive failed at a lot of relationships...sigh.
Anyhow, I hope she does the right thing!
It sounds very sudden. I hope that she finds what she is looking for.
I'm sorry to here about this I hope that she find's the one that she want's to be with forever . I know how she feel's when it come's to that I'm with someone right now that has been talking about merrege ,and yet I am still wondering if that day will ever come. I hope that thing's work out for her I really do. Have a nice day hope.
dunno bout this thought but isnt part a findin ya perfect mate is findin a mate in yaself first jus thinkin aloud
Michael
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hugs to your Daughter sometimes you don't know and have to risk. Then you can be pleasantly surprised. The heart can heal. It's good that way.
I hope she's right too.
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